Mood swings and bad temper cannot be attributed to women only. Men too, fall for bad temper if they come across irritable acts often put forward by women on a first date. Such demeaning acts can easily put your man off. However, these put-offs are easy to avoid if you really comprehend what they can be. So, let’s look at the top 5 acts that can bring irritability to your man on a first date.
1. Talking Too Much
Nervousness often compels people to talk more than they actually want to. If you are doing so out of nervousness on your first date, stop right away and allow yourself to cool down. You talking so much is one reason why he can’t. Take a break and ask him questions. The more you let him know you, the better are the chances that the relationship will survive for longer.
2. Staying Quiet
Contrary to the above, quietness is disgusting. It does not let your man know anything about you as he certainly does not want to talk all the time about himself. Break the ice for yourself so he gets to know more about you.
3. “Expecting” Him to Pay Alone
Expecting your man to pay alone should not come naturally to you as it is your first date. Although men feel alright to do so, you “expecting” it from him will turn him off. For example, asking him to share the expense of the dinner and drinks is perfectly fine. Women who instead “expect” him to pay for everything thinking they shouldn’t as they are the female partner certainly turn off their man right away.
4. Bragging and Namedropping
Bragging is a major turn off for men as it is for women. It is obvious that you both would talk about your work life, personal life, family friends, and everything else that matter to you. Similarly, it is completely okay if you work for a top-notch marketing agency and your favorite celebrity is one of your clients. However, your man won’t be interested at all to know if you try telling him what that celebrity got you for a Christmas gift. Namedropping is highly unimpressive and a major turn off for your man.
5. Going Too Strong
Women usually assume that if they have sex with the man on first date, the man will stop taking her as a dating prospect in the future. However, your man does not think the same and it may turn him off badly it if you insist on this. With this attitude, sex will still happen on your first date, but never again.